Death Becomes New Life: Nurses Witness the Beginning and End

Written by Tori Hamilton, BScN, RN, IBCLC, PMH-C

I am a registered nurse psychotherapist, IBCLC, and mom of four. I have additional trainings in psychotherapy techniques involving Internal Family Systems, Compassionate Inquiry, and Brainspotting. Please check out my other articles and join the email list for additional supports. To book sessions, visit my other website https://attunedtherapy.ca

April 25, 2016

I am very proud to announce that I have just had an article published at NurseTogether! In addition, they have asked me to stay on as one of their contributing writers so stay tuned for more updates.

I would like to thank everyone out there that has supported my writing venture so far! It has been so much fun, but I would have given up already if I didn’t have people urging me on.

Seriously.

Thank you.

Here is an excerpt of my post being showcased and the link to the full article.

Death Becomes New Life

I work in a small town hospital on a medical, surgical, palliative (end of life), obstetrical and postpartum floor. Though we are a low-risk centre, our nurses look after everyone from your newborn baby to your elderly neighbour with Congestive Heart Failure. I love being a small town nurse. Our skills are so varied and there is always something new to learn.

There may be a severe lack of government funding at this hospital, but there has never been a lack of heart.

During my day shift, one of the patients on the floor was dying of lung cancer, a terrible disease that robs your ability to breathe. I have been told that it is like you have a perpetual feeling of being unable to catch your breath. When we came in that morning, it was clearly evident that the panic had set in.

She was up and down, silagra 50 mg online ringing the call bell frequently, asking for help but couldn’t tell us what with. She knew that she didn’t have long. One nurse remarked that she could smell the cancer on this patient’s breath. We all knew it would be soon.

The following night she was unresponsive.

As the number of family members steadily grew and her breathing became more apneic, I cared for her dying body. I repositioned her, applied cool cloths to her forehead, provided mouth care and gave frequent doses of pain medications.

I didn’t know this patient well at all, but I tried to care for her as if she was my own family member.

I thought of my Nanny, who had died of lung cancer years ago and who I didn’t get to say goodbye to. I was young and had been shielded from her altered, incapacitated state, and yet it was as if I was looking after her now.

I thought of my husband’s uncle, who has just been diagnosed with lung cancer just this week. It has spread and the cancer has been deemed inoperable. The whole family has been shaken with grief.

with death comes new life

To finish the rest of the article, please go to:

http://www.nursetogether.com/death-becomes-new-life-nurses-witness-beginning-and-end#sthash.nxj6126M.dpuf

Do you remember a nurse that has made a difference in your life? Are you a nurse and have a story to share about how a patient has affected your life? Share in the comment section below!

xo, The Mama Nurse

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6 Comments

  1. Carla Chadwick

    We all experience the circle of life at some point, but it looks like you see it at a much accelerated pace. Thank you for sharing your story.

    It’s been such a sacred experience when I’ve experienced death up-close. But to see it followed so closely by a birth would be very special indeed.

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  2. Samantha @ Momma Wants Java

    Congratulations, Tori! I just finished reading your article, and you moved me to tears! You are an amazing woman, and I have so much respect for what you do. Keep up the wonderful work – writing and nursing! 🙂

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    • TheMamaNurse

      Samantha, thank you so much for your kind words. And I’m not going to lie – I was a bit teary when I wrote it :).

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  3. Julie S.

    Beautiful article hon and congrats on being a contributing writer!

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    • TheMamaNurse

      Thanks Julie, you have been such a fantastic support! Love my blogger friends! <3

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  4. Healing Mama

    What a powerful story….it made me cry. It has such to be such a surreal feeling.

    Reply

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